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Best Undershirts For Men

If you own any of the collared shirts I recommend in my Men’s Wardrobe Essentials Series, specifically the Oxford Button Down Shirt and a Semi Spread Collar dress shirt, you need to own some crew and v-neck undershirts. And before we get into it, there’s no scenario when you should ever wear a tank-top undershirt, AKA a wife beater – ever. You’ll see the lines underneath any shirt you’re wearing, and it just looks terrible. So let’s talk about the best undershirts for men and why you should own them. 

Undershirts are essential because

  • They provide a barrier between your sweaty, oily, deodorant-riddled skin and your dress shirts.
  • Due to this barrier, you may not have to get them cleaned as often, which will prolong their life.
  • They make dress shirts, specifically light-colored ones, look much better by not showing your skin and/or nipples through them.
  • They add another layer to your outfit for a little extra warmth or moisture wicking – depending on the weather.

How to Wear an Undershirt Under a Dress Shirt

You would think this is simple, right? Me too, but it’s very rare when a client knows how to wear an undershirt properly. A good undershirt is not something anyone should ever notice. If it’s noticeable, you’ve failed.

These are the 2 rules for wearing an undershirt:

  1. If you’re wearing a collared shirt without a tie, with the top button or two open, you need to wear a v-neck undershirt. Remember, no one should ever see your undershirt – even a bit of the collar.
  2. If you’re wearing a tie, you have to wear a crew neck undershirt. Otherwise, you’ll be able to see the v under the shirt and it looks like crap.

When should you go without an undershirt?

The only time I’d suggest not wearing an undershirt is if you’re wearing a white collared shirt. If you’re a lighter skinned guy, this is more geared toward you. Because most other undershirts might be seen through. But you can still try wearing a nude or gray undershirt to see if it’s not visible.

This problem isn’t as bad if you’re darker-skinned and wearing a similar-colored undershirt. That said, if you have darker nipples or nipples that tend to stick out a little bit, then an undershirt is required for you no matter what. Just make sure it matches your skin tone relatively closely.

Are Undershirts Supposed to be Tight?

A lot of my clients ask this question and the short answer is:
Sort of.

They shouldn’t be skin tight, but they should absolutely fit close to the body. Ideally, you want an undershirt to fit this way in the body and sleeves so you don’t see wrinkles or creases underneath your shirt. If the sleeves or body is loose, you’ll definitely see the line under the sleeves and wrinkles in the body – no matter the color of shirt you’re wearing over it.

Are Undershirts Supposed to be Thin?

Yes! They should be thin because they’re an underlayer and a thinner shirt will feel better and not add bulk to your frame. You don’t want this to happen regardless of your body type.

Should I have only white undershirts?

Not necessarily. I always have my clients wear undershirts that are closer to their skin tone. So if you’re darker skinned, you can go with a darker gray, brown, or black undershirt. Lighter skinned men should stick with light gray or white. A warning though, if you’re lighter skinned: a light gray undershirt under white or light-colored shirts is ok, but honestly, I’ve tried this a few times it and it tends to make the dress shirt look dingy or kind of faded. It’s not a good look, so I usually say to go without an undershirt in these instances.

Another quick note while we’re talking about white undershirts

I see this often with guys – if I can see exactly where your undershirt starts and ends around your neck or sleeves, (this only happens with light blue and white collared shirts), this means your shirt’s fabric is too thin and/or you need to change the color of your undershirt to match your skin tone better.

The Best White and colored Undershirts

These are the best undershirts that my clients and I love the most. Having tried all the major ones out there, these are my favorites:

Tommy John Second Skin Undershirts

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Second Skin Crew and Deep V-Neck undershirts are my favorites. I like these a lot because they fit snugly on all body types and the fabric is super soft and has a little bit of stretch to it, so they won’t leave winkles showing through your shirts. But these niceties don’t come cheaply. Unlike their underwear, though, which I discussed here, they are very durable and will last you a good long while. They also make a nude and black colored undershirts to cover most men out there.

A quick note about their V-necks. Their images aren’t quite accurate and their titles are misleading.

Their “Deep V-Neck” is actually a regular v-neck length, so get that one and don’t waste your time with the regular v-neck, because the regular one is way too high and will absolutely be visible if you wear your collared shirts unbuttoned. I know the pictures look like the v is quite deep, but trust me, in person they’re not that deep.

RibbedTee Tri-Blend Undershirts

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RibbedTee makes some of the softest, most comfortable undershirts I’ve tested. My clients said it was like wearing a soft fluffy layer of air. Their gray undershirts are great for lighter skinned guys, too, but they make many colors. You honestly can’t go wrong with any of their undershirts, but my clients were partial to the Tri Blend, Supima cotton and their Evo Tencell ones.

Calvin Klein Undershirts

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For a budget-friendly option, I really like Calvin Klein’s Cotton Classic undershirts because the fit is great and the fabric is not too thick or thin, which is a problem with most other undershirts in this price range.

I like them because they also have different fits based on your body type – like slim and regular – which fit my larger or taller clients very well. They also make a similar undershirt to Tommy John called Body Modal, but I say just spend the few extra bucks and get the Tommy Johns instead because they’re just all around better.

Spanx Undershirts

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I mentioned these in one of my AskAW videos because my clients who wear these LOVE them. If you’re looking to slim down your waist, belly or chest area, these are perfect. I like to say that they are like visual airbrushing tools. They’re not so snug that it feels like you can’t breath, which is important because I think a lot of men assume they’ll be too restrictive, but they’re just a little bit tighter than your average shirt, but they will literally drop you down a waist or shirt size in most cases.

Alright, that’s it. Those are the best undershirts for men – period!

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Underwear – The Best Boxer Briefs

So let’s talk about your twig and berries, well… not really, let’s talk about the thing they go into – your underwear.

For a long time, men have viewed underwear as an afterthought. They were made of white cotton, reached up to your armpits, looked like you had a perpetual load in your pants and were bought in a 50 pack that’d last well into the next decade (or five, if you’re like my grandfather).

Other than shoes, underwear will impact your overall comfort more than any other garment. It doesn’t matter what you’re wearing on the outside, if you’ve got ill-fitting, bunching underwear, you’ll be annoyed and uncomfortable.

There’s a reason rough, uncomfortable clothing has been used for thousands of years as a form of torture.

The 2 Rules of Underwear Every Man Should Live By

Before we get into details, whether you go with my recommendations at the bottom of this page or not, these are the 2 rules for you should adhere to:

  1. Color is very important.
    Just like I mentioned in my 10 Style Mistakes Ebook regarding socks, you should never wear (or own!) white underwear. It’s gross looking, stains easily and reminds everyone of their father or grandfathers – and not in a good way. So stick with the dark, solid colors like black, brown, blue or charcoal gray and you’ll be fine.
  2. Avoid logos as much as possible.
    With some brands, including the ones I think you should own at the bottom of this story, it’s almost unavoidable, but please, please refrain from the ridiculous tommy logos and other crap like that. It’s just trashy.

Why You Should Only Wear Boxer Briefs

Underwear is an item of clothing that, if it’s doing it’s job correctly, shouldn’t be noticed. If you’re thinking about your underwear, even a second after you’ve put them on, that’s a problem.

There’s 5 major types of mens underwear

  1. Briefs
  2. Boxers
  3. Boxer Briefs
  4. Trunks
  5. (Technically, there’s thongs too, but… no)

Underwear should not do the following

  • Bunch or dig into your leg or crotch.
  • Cause any chafing.
  • Create visible panty lines (VPL’s) – this is a problem for men, too!
  • Turn your undercarriage into a cheese factory.
  • Remind someone of their meth-cooking father or grandfather.

In my experience, there’s only one type of underwear that has the least amount of the problems listed above: boxer briefs.

This is why I only recommend the best boxer briefs to all my clients. They’re the holy grail of underwear for the following reasons:

  • Most comfortable fit
  • Great breathability
  • Keep your plums secure
  • Flattering on any body type which is important because you want a woman to still think you look sexy when you’re just in your underwear
  • Won’t show through clothing and/or create VPL’s.

The Best Boxer Briefs

Here’s the brands I recommend to all my clients, based on their needs and preferences and what I’d consider the most comfortable underwear for men.

Ex-Officio Give N Go Boxer Briefs

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There’s two different pairs from Ex-Officio that I recommend. The Give N Go’s are the ones my clients love the most. I’ve never seen them get so enthusiastic about a brand, but they really do love these.

Pros

  • Super comfortable, soft fabric.
  • Moisture wicking, breathable, synthetic blend material.
  • Generous, almost drop-crotch fit.
  • Very little stretching after extended use.
  • Extremely durable – I’ve seen them last over a year of regular wear with very little breakdown in quality or fit.
  • They don’t bunch.
  • I like the smaller waistband a lot, since it won’t be sticking out the top of your pants as much as some other brands.

Cons

  • They definitely look “sporty”, especially with the logo on the waistband.
  • If you prefer natural fibers, these are synthetic.
  • If you really like your plums held tightly in place, like with briefs, these will feel a little loose in that area. They feel more like boxers since the crotch is cut lower.
  • Some clients don’t like the odd angled stitching along the butt, they say it feels a little weird. But others say they prefer it.
  • The pocket access is through the side, which is the norm, but there’s another brand that I think does this better, which I’ll get into shortly.

Ex-Officio Give-N-Go Sport Mesh 6 or 9 Inch Boxer Briefs

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These are similar to Give and Go’s, but my clients that didn’t like the regular ones, preferred these because:

  • The material is softer and silkier, but some of them also noted that this silkyness led to some bunching around the upper thigh as the day wore on. The best way to mitigate this is by getting the 6 or 9 inch versions depending on how tall you are.
  • The pouch/pocket in the front is smaller and tighter. These are their sport version. So if you really like your plums kept snug, these are better for you.
  • The downside is the loud colors and contrasting stitching. I personally think it’s a bit much, but my clients loved the fit and material so much that I’m willing to make an exception here because I want you to be as comfortable as possible. Just make sure to get the black ones with the red stitching – the other colors are way too loud.

Tommy John Second Skin Boxer Brief

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Pros

  • Super soft material – the softest of the bunch, by far.
  • A top-loading pocket design that’s easier to use at the urinal.
  • Very breathable.
  • Comfortable waistband.
  • Snug applebag fit.

Cons

  • They’re pretty damn pricey – $30+ a pair.
  • They don’t retain their shape very well after extended wear, which can lead to a little bunching in the legs. To avoid this, I’ve had clients go down a size, but after a little bit, they’ll stretch out perfectly.
  • Not as durable. You’ll definitely have to replenish your stock more often than with Ex-Officio. These usually last about 8 -10 months with clients before they start wearing thin in areas.
  • They are made of thinner material, which is kind of sheer, which adds to the less-than-durable point I just mentioned.

H&M Cotton Stretch Boxer Briefs

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I’m sure some of you are looking at the prices of my recommendations above and think I’m crazy. If caring about your genital comfort is a crime, then arrest me now!

My, let’s just say… “budget-conscious” clients prefer these over the other brands for the following reasons:

Pros

  • They’re cheap – $18 for a 3 pack.
  • Decent cotton fabric – not the best, but not the worst, either.
  • Doesn’t bunch as much.
  • No branding/logos- which is a big plus.
  • Did I mention they’re cheap?

Cons

  • Not as soft as other brands.
  • Not as durable and have a tendency to fade quicker than other brands.

Honorable Mentions

These just barely didn’t make the cut, but I wanted to include them as well. For their price, they’re great, but durability and longevity is always an issue at these price points. But if you really don’t want to pay a lot, these are right up your alley and hit the color and no-logo points perfectly. Just please replace them when they’re faded or holey. Typical usages was anywhere from 6 months to a year.

Uniqlo’s Airism Mesh Boxer Briefs

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Uniqlo’s Supima Cotton Boxer Briefs

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Kirkland Boxer Briefs

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That’s it, those are the honest-to-goodness best boxer briefs that I use with all my clients. So get your sh*t together and start wearing the most comfortable underwear for men – boxer briefs! Your psyche and gentleman’s sausage (that’s 4 euphemisms for male genitalia, if you’ve been keeping track!) will thank you!

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Phone/Mobile Cases

Just like with your wallets, a phone is something you’re probably carrying on a daily basis. So let’s make sure your case is as classy, well-designed and functional to meet your needs.

If you work in a more physically-intensive job, where utility trumps everything else, then use whatever case meets your requirements for the week and then grab one of my choices below for the off-hours or weekend. Because there’s nothing worse than seeing a guy with a big phone bulge in his front pocket, or worse-yet, a big ass phone clipped to his belt – yuck.

The goal with anything you carry, and especially your phone case, is to provide protection, while still looking sharp and being as small/minimal as possible. Believe me, I’ve tested a few hundred cases over the years and these are by far the best that my clients and I all agree about.

Quick note: Even though I’m demonstrating cases and showing pictures of cases for iPhones, I do my best to provide Android options wherever possible.

The Veil XT by Caudabe

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This case is so awesome that not only do I recommend it to my clients, but I use it myself.

It protects the back and sides with the slimmest profile I’ve ever seen. Also, here’s a point I especially love – It doesn’t have some gaudy logo all over it.

It’s made of a flexible but hard plastic that has a rubbery matte texture, so it isn’t slippery like other cases. There’s lot of similar cases out there, but I like this one because it covers the bottom and top parts – which most others don’t. In my tests, if this type of case doesn’t cover all sides, the edges will catch on your pockets or fingers and the corners will chip off easily and become jagged, which is very annoying to hold.

The only downside to this case is it doesn’t provide any screen protection, so it’ll be sitting on the screen if you lay your phone face down. If you need screen protection, see the next two cases.

I also like that the case is still a little pliable. Most similar cases are very brittle and my clients broke a few of them trying them out for me. This one has come off and on numerous times and looks good as new and hasn’t warped yet.

Frost and Wisp are my two favorite colors.

Ringke Air & Slim Cases

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Before I discovered the Veil, I recommended and used Ringke cases for years.

The Air case is made of a polyurethane material so it’s soft and flexible. The main advantage of this case is it has a little bit of a lip around the screen, so the screen is protected if you lay your phone face down or drop it. I also like the dust and lint flaps for the headphone and power plugs. They can be annoying if you use these plugs often, so definitely grab the Slim case instead, as it doesn’t have them.

The Slim case is the hard plastic version of the Air case, but, as I said above, without the dust and lint flaps.

I like the crystal clear as well as the smoke black colors for both because they show off the beauty of your phone without looking gaudy.

Bellroy Phone Case – 3 Card

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If you’re looking for a relatively small leather case that can hold 3 cards as well, then grab the Bellroy 3 Card Phone case.

It’s made of the same leather as their wallets and feels really nice in the hand. It’s definitely the smallest phone/card case I’ve seen. They also make a version for 1 card, but what’s the point of that? And their similar case that holds no cards is just too bulky for such a single purpose item.

The major downside to this case, aside from the somewhat bigger size, is the price. It’s quite expensive at about $65, but again, it’s the best leather style case I’ve tested.

I holding one in Blue Steel in the video above, but I also like their Charcoal, Black and Java colors.
So those are the phone cases I recommend to my clients and personally use. Have any cases that you love and you’re not trying to hawk your own product? Leave a comment so myself and others can see. I’m always on the hunt for awesome products!

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Leather Wallets

Like I said in the series Intro Video, the things a man carries on his person projects and influences his life and personality in ways he may not notice. And this is no more true than with the little piece of leather or fabric that he carries every single day – his wallet.

I’ve seen it all when it comes to how men carry their cards and cash. I’ve had clients with no wallets who just carry a bunch of loose or rubber-banded cards and cash in their pockets, while others carry these massive monstrosities that I wince at just thinking about how uncomfortable it must be to sit on something like that all day.

As I mentioned in my 10 Most Overlooked Style mistakes ebook, full pockets ruin perfectly good outfits. I see it all the time. The sad part, is a lot of wallet manufacturers continue to sell these massive and bulky things they call wallets. I often wonder what man would see these and think this is something they should carry everyday for the next decade.

I’m going show you the different wallets I recommend to my clients.

There’s a few things that every gentleman’s wallet should be:

  • Clean & classically designed
  • As thin or small as possible
  • Understated in color and material

So let’s get into the different types of wallets that are best for you and determine what to have and why.

Bi-fold or Bill Fold wallets

These are the ones you probably envision when thinking about wallets. These typically go in the back pocket, but some men carry them in their front pockets. I don’t advise this, though, because it’ll leave a very noticeable buldge and, depending on the pants, a very odd square fading on the leg.

Valextra – Simple Grip Spring

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The only word that comes to mind when I hold this wallet is luxury. The textured leather and construction feels, pardon my french, so f@#$ing good. I really love the classic design.

This wallet is the thinnest of all the billfolds I’ve seen, which is important because if a wallet is thick while it’s empty, imagine what happens when you start filling it?

The thinness is made possible by nixing the bill slot and using a spring-loaded money clip in the middle. There’s other wallets similar to this by other designers, but they were either not great quality, had a logo all over them, or just had an odd pattern or design.

If you want something almost as thin as a card wallet, but with the ability to hold cash, this wallet is the best I’ve ever seen. That’s on top of it’s impeccable attention to detail, like the hand lacquered piping along the edges that’ll keep this wallet looking new for a long time. If you can’t tell, I love this wallet.

In the video, I have a special edition Petroleum blue, but I also love their dark blue, black and gray colors, as well.

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Bellroy – Low Down

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If the Valextra wallet isn’t your speed then definitely go for the Low Down.

I’ve recommended this wallet to a few friends and clients and they’ve held up amazingly well, even after a year of daily use.

The tapered corners and shorter height help make it feel less chunky and big. And the leather is sturdy yet supple without a hint of shiny or glossy-ness which plagues a lot of wallets.

There’s one thing that bothers me a little and it’s the contrast stitching. I wish it was the same color as the rest of the wallet, but it’s an admittedly small quibble since it’s close enough in color that most people would never notice.

The black and charcoal are the colors you should go for. I normally like brown, as well, but their brown and blue colors were too loud.

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Octovo – The Purist

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The Purist is constructed of thin, high-quality leather and features a simple but efficient design.

I love the angled slots, which diminish bulkiness and make it easier to access the cards. Even when full, this wallet is still quite slim.

I’m not the biggest fan of the two-toned leather lining, but it’s not enough to sway my recommendation.

My only concern with this wallet is the outter leather. Shiny leathers, like this, tend to show every little mark or stain on them. If you’re a little rougher on your wallets, I’d probably go with the Bellroy.

I’d recommend getting their black and chestnut colors.

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Folded Card Cases

I didn’t include these in the video because they’re a little more niche than a bi-fold wallet or regular card case since they fold like a wallet, but can’t hold much cash. I still like them a lot and some clients prefer them over the non-folding card cases, so I thought best to include them.

Louis Vuitton – Pocket Organizer

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With smooth, coated edges and the different interior pockets, my clients really love this wallet. I’ve even given them as gifts a few times. I think the design, pocket placement and textured leather really stands out and feels great in the hand. Just a warning, it’s a little thicker than the other card cases, so if you’re looking for super small and thin, you won’t get it with this one. It feels more like a wallet than a card case.

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Valextra – Folded Card Case

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Just like with their bi-fold wallet and regular card case (below), the leather is awesome and the design so classic and thin that it’s hard not to love it. I especially like how they keep the logo very small and out of the way, unlike some other brands…

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Coach – Card Wallet

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If the other options are a little pricey, you will love this one. I love the textured leather and the construction is quite good. A lot of times, Coach misses the mark, but they nailed it with this card wallet.

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Card Cases

These are for the guys who want the slimmest wallet-ish thing possible and don’t have the need to carry much cash. Or, as I’ll touch upon later, as a secondary, going-out wallet.

Valextra – Card Case

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Just like their bi-fold wallet. This card case is super luxurious, thin and well-constructed. There’s not much else to say, I actually like this one because it has 6 slots, so you won’t have to stack a lot of cards in it. Most other card cases have 3 or 4 slots so you’ll have to dig through your cards to find the right one.

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Bellroy – Micro Sleeve

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If the Valextra isn’t your thing, this is a great alternative. Just like their bi-fold wallet, it’s a super durable, thin and features a unique and logical design.

The card slots with different orientations, make it’ easier to pull out your cards and squeeze the sides to expose the center pocket’s contents. I also love the curved edges since it’s easier to slip in and out of your pocket and not catch or snag on anything.

Just like with their Low Down wallet, though, I wish the stitching wasn’t so contrasting. I only like the black or blue steel colors because the other options are either two-toned or really loud.

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Octovo – The Slice

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Soft, supple leather and classy as hell. Unlike with their bi-fold wallet, I actually like the two-tone top pocket because it’s just a little nice surprise and doesn’t scream at you.

Black is the best color for this wallet, and just like with their bi-fold wallet, I question the durability of the leather if you’re rougher on your wallets, but I really, really like the clean and simple design.

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Phone Wallet

If you’re looking for a wallet that holds you cards, cash and phone, these are for you. Let me warn you, though, they’re the opposite of slim wallets. If you wear suits, carry a bag often, or don’t mind carrying your wallet in your hand, these are right up your alley.

I’ve had clients explain to me the joy of carrying their phone in their wallets – where it takes a little more effort and time to get to their phones. They say it makes their actions more deliberate and less reactive and schizophrenic. It’s almost like an excuse to take their time. One client explained the opening/unzipping his phone wallet like a sort of ritual. Like rolling up your shirt sleeves or doing something methodically.

I looked long and hard for good ones and even though there’s a lot out there, I found most of them to be lacking in one major area or another.

Bellroy – Phone Pocket

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Like Bellroy’s bi-fold wallet and card case (above), the phone pocket is made from the same leather that is very scratch and blemish resistant with a buttery smooth zipper and an equally logical and well-thought out design. My clients who use this wallet really love it.

I love the pocket layout, where the phone fits in the main compartment and your cards fit in a bit of a floating divider, making everything easily accessible. It also has slots for extra SIM cards, small pens and a place to put your house key. They literally thought of everything.

They make two sizes – for larger and smaller phones. I only like the black, though, as the other colors have odd-colored zippers and pull tabs, and/or the color is just too loud and not befitting a proper gentleman.

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This is Ground – Stash, Phone Wallet

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After scouring the web for months trying to find other great phone wallets, I was so happy to find This Is Ground. Turns out that they’re located less than 5 miles away from my office! I got to visit them and they showed me all their goods and I was very impressed.

If you don’t like the Bellroy Phone Pocket, then go for this one. It cuts out all the extra frills and gives you just the essentials. Which is not a bad thing at all. Some clients noted how they preferred how this one opens flat over the taco-style opening of the Bellroy.

The leather is so supple and nice to hold that it really sets itself apart. It’s not as scratch/blemish resistant as the Bellroy, but this wallet will age and mature with you and have a much nicer patina.

The only downside is that the zipper tends to stick a little for the first week or two. My clients were definitely spoiled after using the Bellroy, but they all said it smoothed out after “working it in”, so it’s a minor quibble.

I love the Smoke (black) and Cognac colors the most. The Cognac looks amazing in person. The Stash comes in small and large phone sizes, as well.

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So which wallet(s) should you own?

For my clients, I normally recommend they get a bi-fold or phone wallet and then a card case for when they don’t need to carry as much – like when they’re going out for the night or to a premiere or after-party, where seeing pocket bulges is a big no-no.

For a guy that likes his phone and wallet separate and needs to carry a decent amount of cards/cash with him, I’d say get a bi-fold and get a card case for when you’re going out for the night or just don’t need to carry all your stuff with you.

If you want to carry as little with you as possible and hate added bulk, get a card case. But don’t delude yourself and cram 15 cards into a card case and still think it’ll be slim. If that’s the case, you should just get a bi-fold, as it’ll do a better job of distributing that bulk in your pocket.

If you’re a guy who likes to carry everything all together, or doesn’t want to sit on a chunk of leather and cards, then the phone wallets are for you.

I think a man should have a regular, everyday wallet that can be placed into a breast pocket in your blazer or suit jacket and some form of a slim wallet that can slide into a front or back pants pocket when you don’t need everything – like when you’re going out for the evening, etc.

Just like with keys, you don’t need to and shouldn’t have to carry everything with you at all times. Most men/my clients love to say “But what if I need something in the wallet?”

The argument quickly crumbles when I ask them:
“So you’re going out for drinks with your friends, and need your gym, library, membership cards in case you need to go work out while reading a book at 2am?”

Most men know what kind of night they’re going to have, so don’t pull that BS of needing your tactical wallet with you at all times.

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Bean Boozled Challenge w/ Megan Collins


Megan Collins from StyleGirlfriend.com joined me for an #AskAW episode last time, but now she’s back to compare our lists of the Top 10 Men’s Wardrobe Essentials – with a disgusting twist.

If you don’t know the Bean Boozled Challenge, it’s a game where you have a 50/50 chance of getting a delicious jelly bean or one that’s flavored something like vomit, skunk, rotten eggs and a whole host of really vile flavors.

Unfortunately, I got to try most of them… :(

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The #AskAW Show: Episode 08 w/ Megan Collins from StyleGirlfriend

In this episode I have a special guest – Megan Collins from StyleGirlfriend.com! I also just did a Q&A over on her site, so check it out here.

Have a question you’d like me to answer? Ask in the comments of this youtube video or send me an email.

In this episode, we answer:

Q: Getting married this summer and my soon-to-be wife is wearing a coral gown, so what can I wear to compliment her dress?

A: Get a Gray or Navy Notch Lapel Suit (make sure it fits properly!), a white semi-spread collardress shirt (also make sure that it fits properly), black, navy or charcoal tie, white pocket square and some black dress shoes.

Q: I’ve recently put on weight, how can I still tuck in my shirts and hide my stomach?

A: Get some slimming undershirts and boxer briefs! My clients have used and love these! Also, lose the weight quickly. My male friends have all used this technique with much success!

Q: Is buying raw denim worth the extra money?

A: NO! Get these wonderfully broken-in dark wash jeans instead.

Q: I’m pale and would like to incorporate more color into my wardrobe. What should I do?

A: If you’ve already got the basic colors for polo shirts, t-shirts, etc., then go for cooler colors like blues and greens. If you were to wear reds, yellow and oranges (warmer colors), it won’t look good with your skin tone.

Q: I’m from Hawaii and want to start layering but I’m worried I’ll be too hot.

A: Get a short sleeved button up shirt, leave the top few buttons undone and layer it with a t-shirt underneath. Throw on a pair of chino pants, cuffed at the bottom, with some white sneakers and you’ll look amazing. If you work indoors, then you can possibly get away with wearing a lighter jacket, like a Harrington jacket, but it’ll still be a little rough when you’re not indoors.