Ties are a fundamental accessory in a man’s essential wardrobe, they can add personality, elegance, and formality to many types of looks, no matter what your personal style is. Rules about style and formality, in both work and social settings, are changing so quickly that it can be tough to know when you should and shouldn’t wear a tie.
So, in this episode of 2 Minute Tuesday we’re discussing when and how men should wear a tie! For a full breakdown on our favorite ties and specific tips, make sure you check out our tie article!
A key thing to remember about ties starts with what you should be wearing them with. Dressier looks like suits and sport coats are definitely options you can and should wear a tie with. For more of a hybrid look, try wearing a tie with a bomber jacket, it can give your casual look a cool dressy vibe. One word of warning though, you don’t want to wear just a tie on its own without a jacket, it just doesn’t look right.
With What Types of Dress Codes?
When to wear a tie can also be determined by the dress code or how formal your place of work happens to be. Dress codes like “Formal”, “Cocktail Attire” or “Cocktail Party” often call for a suit and a tie. Business casual tends to lean slightly more casual but a tie can be appropriate given the right scenario. One tip we love, try a knit tie in those less-dressy situations, they’re not as dressy as a silk tie and will give your look a cool vibe.
If you aren’t totally sure about dress codes, ultimately you want to go with the crowd and let that dictate when a tie is appropriate. Always being stylish and a bit more dressed up is a great thing most of the time. But, you don’t want to be significantly overdressing for occasions or workplaces that don’t call for it. It can seem like you’re trying too hard or attempting to stand out, and not in a good way.
For this edition of our Everyday Carry series, Ashley sat down with her friend, Ty Severe, to discuss his go-to EDC items and what helps get him through the day as a successful menswear and lifestyle influencer.
Thanks to Ty for joining us for this video and thanks to IWC, one of my favorite watch brands of all time, for helping make this video happen!
We’ve talked about how important it is to regularly clean out your wardrobe of items that are old, out of style, and no longer worth it. This goes for your accessories too. Accessories are a key part of your overall style, and a few wrong choices or out of date items can easily ruin an otherwise great look.
1. Wide bracelets
My position on this is well known, it’s time to ditch the stacked bracelets and wide leather straps. Their time has come and gone.
2. Too-wide ties
It’s important to keep an eye on your tie’s width. Not everyone should wear a skinny tie (it should be proportionate to your body type and suit style) but anything wider than 3” is just going to look out of date and out of style.
3. Belts with big buckles or large logos
Another item I’ve talked about before, get rid of ‘em! Belts should be minimal. The same goes for super-wide belt widths and contrasting stitching, definitely a big no.
4. Lapel flowers/pins
I don’t mind a bit of flair, like a thoughtfully chosen pocket square or tie bar, but at a certain point, less is more. You don’t need to add on a lapel pin/flower in addition to all the other accessories you’re wearing, it’s too much.
5. Extra-wide tie bars
If your tie bar goes past your tie, you’re in trouble. Additionally, anything more than 2 inches wide, (unless you’re a broader guy with a 44” chest or larger), is just too long.
6. Colored shoelaces
Another trend that had its day, simple and understated is the way to go with shoelaces. You want that nice pair of shoes to do the talking, not the brightly-colored laces.
7. Big, chunky metal rings
A simple band or signet ring is just fine, but large bulky rings just look dated and over the top.
Whether it’s your first tattoo or tenth, getting a tattoo should be a great experience, both for you and for your tattoo artist. Make sure you’re not doing any of these, you definitely don’t want to be “that guy”!
1. Arrive under the influence
A huge no-no, come back when you’re sober.
2. Micromanage the artist
Trust is huge and constant micromanaging is not only distracting but also disrespectful.
3. Be disrespectful
Speaking of that, being polite and respectful to the artist and shop employees is critical for a good experience. You wouldn’t like it if someone came to your place of work and was rude right? Don’t forget to show gratitude to your artist via a tip for their hard work as well.
4. Ask to copy another artist’s work
Inspiration is fine but artists are here for their own work, not someone else’s.
5. Throw up on them
Yikes. Please don’t.
6. Be rushed
It’s a process and takes time so if you don’t have the time and patience, GTFO!
7. Bring a ton of people
One or two people for support is just fine, but a crowd of annoying friends? Definitely not.
8. Haggle the price
Back to respect, the prices are what they are so don’t be that haggler.
9. Have poor hygiene
Maybe it’s obvious, but just like everyone else, your artist doesn’t want to smell your BO.
10. Come unprepared
Getting a tattoo is a big decision and you should arrive with a plan and comfortable with what you’re getting and the artist you are working with, make sure you do your homework.
Extra special thanks to Romeo Lacoste and California Dream Tatto for collaborating with us! For more, don’t forget to check out Romeo’s channel.
Denim, it’s an absolute staple, and you can wear jeans just about anywhere these days. But, it’s important to have the right colors for the job. I don’t recommend all colors of denim for every occasion so you should not only know what 4 colors you need to have, but also the right and wrong times to wear them
For more, don’t forget to check out our Jeans Fit Guide and our tips on how to take care of your denim!
The four colors of denim I recommend owning are dark indigo, a lighter wash of blue, grey and black.
If you own just one pair, a dark wash indigo is the one to own, so buy these first! It’s the most versatile and can be worn dressed up with something like a blazer and loafers or with everything casual like sneakers and a t-shirt. If you work in a business casual office dark indigo jeans are a great alternative to chinos on casual days.
Light Wash Blue
Not as versatile as a darker wash, I recommend a lighter blue for more casual situations. Be careful not to go too light on the wash as the very light shades tend to be a bit too trendy and can veer a bit too young.
While not as important as dark wash jeans, grey jeans can be quite versatile. Stick with a medium to darker grey wash and don’t be afraid to dress them up. Think of them kind of like a pair of grey chinos in terms of how and where you would wear them.
I love a good pair of black jeans and they’re almost as vital to your wardrobe as dark indigo jeans. They have a little bit of a rocker vibe to them and look great for nighttime occasions. You can never go wrong with a pair of black jeans, a white or grey shirt, and a pair of sneakers or boots.
APC Petit Standard
Uniqlo Slim Fit Selvedge
Paige in Birch
Uniqlo Slim Selvedge
Jbrand Tyler in Luna
Hudson Blake in Metal
Jbrand Tyler in Slate
Gap Slim Fit
H&M Slim Fit
AG Tellis in Deep Pitch
APC Petit Standard
Levis Made & Crafted 511
Uniqlo Slim Selvedge
Many of you have asked more about “our story” so we’re happy to start sharing. Here’s more about how we met!
brought my friend, Sabrina, on to help me go over the facial hairstyles women love and hate and figure out what is best based on your age and face shape.
efore I begin, I want you to take notice of the fact that this list will not mention anything about attractiveness, because, to a woman, it’s obviously something we like, but it’s not a deal-breaker requirement for most women and it’s not the only thing that can turn us on. So let’s get into the things that EVERY man does or can do that turns women on.
2. Prompt & Punctual
Has good manners (i.e. holds door open for a woman, knows to not eat before a woman/others at the table, polite to others). You’d be surprised how uncommon a well-mannered man is.
4. Smiles a Lot
This indicates a man is friendly.
5. Good sense of humor
6. Maintain a nice conversation
7. Good Listener
A man who has his finances in order and keeps good relationships with family and/or friends.
Being confident in yourself and everything you do is a huge turn on for women. This can make up for lacking in the good looks department.
10. Constant Learner
11. Takes Care of Himself
i.e. grooming, healthy lifestyle habits, being well-dressed.
12. Ambitious & Passionate
In all that you do, including your career.